Calgon Take Me Away!

I can't believe how quickly things have returned to normal here. Matt is only home a few days and all Hell has broken loose. He and Patrick are at each other's throats constantly. What happened to my quiet, happy house? I want it back! Today they argued about Harry Potter, the tv, setting the table, clearing the table, who was lazier, who does more around the house, and on and on.... Randy and I went to the gym for an hour and it was so peaceful!!!
This morning we went to Holy Spirit for church. Patrick loved the service. He is determined that we are joining there, but I'm still not sure. I liked the music and the sermon was really good. It's just very contemporary. So different from what I know and am used to. And it is hard to leave St. Johns. We joined there before Matt was born, and it was such a big part of our lives. But it has changed a lot. I don't feel good after I leave on a Sunday morning. I don't feel like I belong there anymore. So, I guess that we need to go to a few more churches, or at least go to Holy Spirit a few more times before we decide. I just wish it were easier.